As the 2011 tourism season is slowly winding down at the burial ground, I try to enjoy each nice day that is left before I scramble to locate my hat and gloves and embrace winter. On a Wednesday in early November, we had an awesome fall day. It was so nice and I didn’t want to pull myself from this rare autumn treat but I needed to attend a Wednesday after service at Christ Church. A small group gathered for service and to witness (a man celebrating his 100th birthday) a renewing of vows in the very church where this man’s ancestor Captain Oswald Eve married Anne Moore on June 2nd, 1744. In itself this proved to be an interesting event to attend, but I was there in memory of a wedding that never happened in Christ Church.
If I am allowed to pick a favorite person of the over 4,000 people (interred in our burial ground) in my charge, it would not be Franklin or Hopkinson. I would pick Dr. Benjamin Rush, a kindred soul and my unofficial spirit guide. In recent times, I’ve identified with Rush on my levels including on a personal one. In my current studies of the Yellow Fever epidemic, I found it prudent to read the two volumes of Rush’s letters that I have. His letters give an intriguing look into the mind of a Revolutionary mind in the midst of the founding of our nation. His letters were written to various people including other founding fathers on many topics but the ones I find the most interesting were the ones to dearest Julia, his wife. His letters to me paint a picture of a real man with real problems and makes him seem more human then most founders. Benjamin and Julia had a long and loving relationship, he knew her all her life (he was 12 years older) and they shared a great bond. But what most people may not know that his heart once belonged to another. Many years before Ben married Julia he was in love with Sarah Eve, the daughter of Captain Oswald Eve. Ben and Sarah were to be married but she fell ill and died of Tuberculosis on December 4th, 1774. A funeral was held for her in Christ Church where they were to be wed. She was buried at the Christ Church Burial Ground, yet her marker no longer exists and it’s not known where she is buried. From most accounts Rush never seemed to fully get over this, even though he refused to ever speak of it. Even though Ben and Julia would later be married and have a love story for the ages, his love tragedy always stuck with him. When I read of this Ben’s great loss I couldn’t help but shed a tear for a man who never got to marry the woman he had been destined to be with. To me, its always been important to humanize the founding fathers, and I am always trying to learn more about them and their lives on a personal basis.
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| Julia Stockton Rush |
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| Dr. Benjamin Rush |
I will be participating in the First Person Arts Festival on November 20th, 1-4pm, along with other colleges from Christ Church. The even (1pm to 4pm) begins at Neighborhood House (20 N. American st) and will continue with a tour led by me of my personal experiences at the burial ground. For more info check out -













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